As the end of the year approaches, I’ve started to think about what I’m going to do with Birdy next year. She’s turning three in January so I was hoping she’d get offered a place in pre-school, but around here places in pre-school seem to be harder to find than a car park at Bondi. But I’ve noticed that as she gets older she’s looking for the company of other kids a lot more. In fact, she often puts on her little Wiggles backpack and tells me she’s ready for pre-school.
So far we haven’t needed to use any formal daycare. We’ve been using a nanny one morning a week, which has been perfect while she’s little. I liked the idea of Birdy having that one-on-one attention and forming a long-term relationship with her babysitter. It’s been so good for her to have another adult take an interest in her. A nanny also gives us great flexibility. There’s been a number of times when we’ve had a wedding to go to, or one of us has ended up in hospital and in those situations it’s been wonderful to have a babysitter that Birdy already knows. But the disadvantage of a nanny is that your kids aren’t making friends with other kids their own age. Not to mention it’s expensive, because there’s no rebate.
One of the things that irritates me about the Australian government’s childcare rebate system is that it totally favours institutional care, without there being any evidence (as far as I’m aware) that this is the best type of care for children and their parents. This encourages parents to place their kids into long daycare, rather than using a nanny or family member to care for their kids. It’s also an example of how the government doesn’t value women’s unpaid work. I think it’d be great if grandmothers and aunties who provide regular childcare while the child’s parents are working (like I do for my sister and she does for me) could have their contribution acknowledged through some form of government payment, rebate or tax deduction. Then many more grandparents and aunties would be enabled to look after their grandkids, nephews and nieces one or two days a week, as an alternative to part-time work. I say this because as our population ages, many of the nations’ grandparents are continuing in paid employment right into their 60s and 70s.
I don’t think any one type of childcare is better than another. Whatever you choose, every type of childcare has its advantages and disadvantages, so it’s just a matter of working out what best suits your particular situation and each particular child. If you use family members for childcare, it’s wonderful for them to have that time together, but then you have to be prepared to make other arrangements when they get sick or go on holidays. If you use family daycare, then they’re in a home environment with one carer, but there may not be as much accountability because no other adult is present while the kids are there. On the other hand, if you go with a long-daycare centre, then your child will have access to lots of stimulating facilities and kids their own age, but they might not get quite as much personal attention. So there’s a lot to consider and we’re still weighing it all up. But if we got offered a place in pre-school next year then that would solve all my problems!
What kind of childcare do you use? Are you happy with the quality of care your kids receive? How have your children responded to it? What are the advantages and disadvantages of that type of care? What would you do differently if you could? Are the government rebates for childcare adequate in Australia?
To leave a comment, click on the story title and fill in the form marked ‘Leave a Reply’.